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What was Up in 2004?
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My "What's Up?" section is the central location where I announce additions or changes at Every Fork in the Road dot org. It's also kinda like a journal of thoughts and/or events having to do with me and my life (some might refer to it as a Blog [which is short for Web Log]). 

This is the history page of "What was Up in 2004". That basically means that I simply cut the 2004 "What's Up" announcements out of the main "What's Up" page and pasted them here in case anyone ever gets curious about what's been up in the past.


To join my "What's Up?" mailing list, please see my notes about it at the bottom of this page.  

[As with the main "What's Up" page, the most recent entry will be at the top in this format: yyyymmdd_HHmm and possibly even ss if appropriate]


20041125
Holy crap! It sure has been a long time since I've added anything new here.
Well, this night is special. It's Thanksgiving, the national holiday in the USA when everyone is supposed to get together and be thankful. Hmmm.

This night, I felt more like a male Black Widow spider getting tricked into being a meal for the female this time around. I don't know. Like I told the host of the party, maybe I'm just too immature or whatever, but I just really don't like getting picked on like that.

I'm not comfortable with situations in which people try to tell me what to eat, what I'll like, what kind of music I must appreciate or like or enjoy or any other form of control. The really odd thing is that I actually did like the song that was their final tool of oppression, even though they kept talking about how I didn't like it, or didn't 'appreciate' it and other nonsense comments.

Ya know, I'm just really not into all that.

The really disappointing thing though is the fact that I actually really enjoyed hanging out with pretty much all of the other guests that were there tonight....even the host's sister, who was said to be such a problem and was talked down to me prior to her arrival to the point that I actually fell for it with no prior experience with this person.

Interesting. The one person I could relate to the most (and the one person I've related to the most for a very long damn time) was the one person I wasn't supposed to like or enjoy being around. Hmm. I wonder if our tendency to 'jive' together pissed off the host or something.

Obviously I'm lost here. I'm grasping at the wind trying to figure out what this person went off on me like they did tonight. I mean really.... at one point, I actually said that I was really glad to be spending the evening hanging out with people (a whole group of people) that I'd really like to hang out with again.

The diversity did not keep me from having a good time and getting to know people.... rather, it was this one person (that probably couldn't handle my willingness to interact with [and genuinely enjoy being in community with] any/every soul) that ruined it. I ended up leaving early. I didn't feel comfortable hanging around taking that kind of abuse any longer.

I know it's not always the best way to deal with situations, but it was their house. I couldn't very easily say, "I'm uncomfortable with the way you're treating me. Your attitude toward me and the way you're talking to me are ruining the atmosphere of friendship that has been brewing all night between the rest of us and I'd like you to leave now". So, I walked out.

Host.... I genuinely and truly wish you well.

Others I met tonight.... I genuinely and truly hope to see you again.


20040925 
Yep, I'm still here. I've just been so busy with so many things that I haven't spent much time on my site for a while. Today I added some thoughts about something said to me in a discussion group recently. I placed it in my "Odd Sayings" section. Here's the link


20040910
Today I added a page about the recent Listerine commercial in which they claim that it is as effective as flossing.
Here's the link.


20040825
Today I added a page to my "Critical Thinking Field Notes" called "Fault-Finding". It's about the difference between fault-finding, nagging and critical thinking. Some people have these all confused with each other. This page is an attempt to set the record straight.


20040824
Today I added a page to my "Other Thoughts" section called "Is God the only Source of Love?" It is basically a response to something in a conversation with a friend about the nature of unconditional love. I think it's quite interesting. What do you think about unconditional love? Check out this page and let me know your ideas as well.


20040809
Here's another edition to my "What's Wrong in this Image" section. the link.


20040808
Today, I added something to the "Things I Don't Like" portion of my "About Me" section. This one's about being interrupted


20040801
Today I added another entry to my "Odd Sayings" page. It's about a phrase I recently saw on a tube of medicine. Here's the link



20040725
What's Wrong in this Image


20040628
Is it really Harder to Believe than not to? That's the question brought to my mind by a song I used to really like. Here's the link to my thoughts on this one. 



20040509
Today I took some of the pages which used to be on my "Critical Thinking" page and put them on a new page, "other Thoughts on Life". I thought I might like it better that way. Not that these particular pages are not effected by thinking critically, but because they are not necessarily dealing with that particular issue quite as directly (in so many words) as are the ones that I left there. 
    The new "other Thoughts" section is mainly going to be about some of my thoughts about things in life in general; like love, compassion, relationships, personal and social psychology and sociology etc. Here's the link... 


20040507
Today I finally added a section for my photos and videos from some of my Back-Roading adventures as well as those of other people. I haven't yet uploaded anything to that section, but I will soon. Here's the link...


20040418
Today I decided to add a new section to my "Odd Sayings" section called "Redundant Redundancies". The first one I posted there is something I heard in a used car commercial on TV recently. Here's the link


20040324
Today I added two more items to my new "What's Wrong in this Image?" section. Once again, here's the link


20040320
I've finally started putting more photographs on this site. Today I started with a brand new section called "What's Wrong in this Image?" I think the first one is an instant classic. Here's the link


20040302
Here's something from the "Darwin Day" page that I had up here for a while around that time (Feb. 12) this year. For a few days, I had it set as the home page on this site. This was my greeting and a "blessing" of sorts from that version of the page... 

" This is my 1st annual Holiday (Holy-Day) blessing for all who enter here... 
Well, some of us survived another year. From the mindless religious rituals or the codependent infighting of our dysfunctional families of origin to the flaming anti-intellectualism rampant in our culture, neither the arrogance of cynicism nor the darkness of belief have managed to extinguish our light. 
I invite you to think critically today, and every day for the rest of this year too. I encourage you to seek out and study something (anything... whatever you're interested in). I hope that you are well and that all is well with you. 
steven"


Ya...I know it's a repeat from below, but oh well....it's my web site. So, in honor of critical thinking and compassion, I hereby bless the freakin hell out of you for giving a damn.   ;-) 


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If you can't see what's wrong with this statement, please send me an e-mail. 


20040212 = Darwin Day 2004
My 1st annual Holiday (Holy-Day) blessing for all who enter here... 
Well, some of us survived another year. From the mindless religious rituals and/or the codependent infighting of our families of origin to the flaming anti-intellectualism rampant in our culture, neither the darkness of cynicism nor belief has managed to extinguish our light. 
I invite you to think critically today, and every day for the rest of this year too. I encourage you to seek out and study something (anything... whatever you're interested in). I hope that you are well and that all is well with you. 
steven


20040128_2055
I added a page on the topic of "Addiction". 
I've looked at it, studied it, learned about it, been there and done it, figured it out and beat it, helped people deal with and get out of it, and just basically thought about it a great deal for many years. I have a lot to say about it and now I finally have a place where I can share some of my thoughts about it.  


20040128_2010-27 
Today I added a few things to my "Odd Sayings" page. They include a couple of redundant blunders; "Deja vu all over again", "against the law" and one good reason for us to be taking a closer look at the airline industry now days; "if you can't read this...". 



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